That nobody has to re-explain themselves
Your communication limits are said once, shown on your profile, and counted in the compatibility calculation. The goal is simple: that "sorry, I’m slow to reply" disappears from your conversations.
01 — Our mission
To make connection possible for neurodivergent adults.
Not easier. Possible. That is a distinction most apps have never had to think about.
Where we start from
A neurodivergent adult has nowhere to go. Adult assessment is slow and expensive, where it is available at all. Associations mostly address children and their parents. And existing apps are built on a pace — reply fast, get on a call, go out at night into the noise — that excludes without ever saying so.
What we believe
- Naming your limits is not a weakness, it is useful information.
- Nobody should have to play a part to be accepted.
- Safety must never be a paid privilege.
- A community is built with the people concerned, not for them.
02 — What we are trying to achieve
How we will know it worked.
That meeting people does not cost a week of energy
Small-group outings where everything is announced in advance — the venue, the duration, the plan, how many people — and which you can leave without justifying it.
That safety is never a paid option
The Guardian, blocking, reporting and communication limits stay free, permanently. An app that charges for its own safety has not understood who it is talking to.
That the community decides what comes next
What we build next comes from the people on the list, not from a roadmap written in advance. That is also why we ask for your opinion from the access list onwards.