A relationship at your pace
Meet someone who already knows you reply in two days, that you prefer writing, and that a quiet Sunday café beats a loud Saturday restaurant.
Love and friendship, for people who needroom to breathe
You say how you work once — and we handle the rest
Free. No diagnosis required. Leave whenever you want
Why KINDYZ? Because
Explaining yourself is exhausting.
Telling every new person why you answer slowly, why noise drains you, why you would rather write — that is work. Here it is already said.
- No diagnosis required
- Free
- A Guardian if you want one
- Leave whenever
Love, friendship, or simply not being alone.
You choose what you are looking for, and you can change your mind at any time. Your choice is visible, so nobody misreads your intentions.
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Friends who get it
Adult friendship is hard for everyone — harder still when you have to explain how you work. Here it is already on the profile. You can look for friendship only, with no ambiguity.
Somewhere you are not the exception
A feed where people talk about what actually happens: social exhaustion, a good day, a diagnosis, a tiny win. Without justifying yourself, and without advice nobody asked for.
Three steps, and nobody rushes you.
You say how you work
Neurotype, interests, communication limits, sensory preferences. Once, and only once.
We suggest compatible people
Shared interests and matching pace. One person at a time, never a wall of faces.
You write when you are ready
No countdown, no automatic nudges, no pressure to answer quickly.
Your limits, said once
Five questions, three possible answers. That is everything we ask.
Profile preview
Salma, 28
12 km away
ASD · Getting assessed
You share3 interests and one activity
Interests
Ceramics, exhibitions, quiet cafés
Communication limits
- Reply timeI need time
- Video callsSometimes
- Loud placesI’d rather avoid
- Daytime meetingsDaytime
- CommunicationWriting preferred
This is what a profile looks like. No score out of 100, no ranking.
See your limitsOutings
Sometimes side by side is easier than face to face.
Small-group activities picked to be bearable: soft light, few people, the plan announced in advance, and the right to leave whenever you want without justifying it.
Ceramics workshop
Hands busy, conversation optional.
- 6People
- 2 hDuration
You can leave whenever you want
Board games
A game in the middle, clear rules.
- 8People
- 3 hDuration
You can leave whenever you want
Coastal walk
Side by side, at the slowest pace.
- 10People
- 1 h 30Duration
You can leave whenever you want
What you know before coming
- The exact venue
- How many people
- How long
- The plan, step by step
And you can leave whenever you want, without justifying it. It is written into the rules of every outing.
Common questions
When does KINDYZ open?
Soon. That is exactly what the access list is for: we write to you the day you can create your account, and the people on the list go first.
I have no official diagnosis. Can I still join?
Yes. You can put “being assessed” or “I don’t know yet”, and nobody will ask you for paperwork. Adult diagnosis is slow, expensive, and often simply out of reach — that is not a reason to be left outside.
I am not looking for a relationship. Is this still for me?
Yes. You choose between love, friendship, community, or simply the outings — and your choice is shown on your profile so nobody misreads your intentions. You can change it whenever you want.
Will there be a paid version?
There is KINDYZ+, a comfort tier. Joining the access list gives you a free month of it, plus another week for every person who signs up with your link. Replying to someone you matched with, your communication limits, the Guardian and reporting stay free regardless.
Who can see my profile?
Only other members, and only inside profile search. Nothing is public, nothing is visible without an account, nothing is indexed by search engines. Your phone number never appears on your profile.
What if I change my mind and want to leave?
You delete your account from the settings, without going through support and without explaining why. Everything goes with it: profile, messages, answers. You can also pause your account instead, or download a copy of your data before you go.
Early access
We open soon. Be there at the start.
No waitlist by city or by country, no threshold to reach. Leave your phone number and you will hear first.
- One free month of KINDYZ+
- Notified before the public opening
- Access to the first small-group outings
- Your opinion shapes what we build